Sayonara Nippon

It's with a heavy heart that I write this last post.

We will forever be changed by the rare and unique opportunity to live in Japan for the past three and a half years. The friendships we've made, the memories we have, the obstacles we've overcome, the culture and sites we've experienced, will never ever be forgotten.

Final Days...

Our final days were spent saying goodbye to dear friends.

Ready to go home, but will deeply miss these faces and places.

Sayonara party

Most expats tend to have a huge sayonara party when they leave Japan... a great reason for a nomikai (all you can drink party) at a local restaurant followed by intense all-night karaoke. I didn't want that. Not only because I was pregnant, but because that just wasn't me.

I wanted a small get together with my girlfriends. Seemed like the perfect excuse to get dressed up, leave the kids at home, and indulge in an all-you-can eat dessert buffet at the elegant Sir Winston Hotel. So that's exactly what we did.

It's hard to find good dessert in Japan - it just doesn't satisfy a U.S. sweet tooth. But the Sir Winston Hotel did not disappoint. You have 90-minutes to eat unlimited cakes and a variety of sweets. Each month the restaurant has a theme and they start you out with a sample of their monthly specials. This month was strawberry --- perfect!

Thanks ladies for a beautiful ending to such an amazing adventure. Life in Nagoya wouldn't have been the same without you.

"The beautiful thing about moving away from your home country is when you meet new people they truly meet the real you, no strings attached. They have no preconceptions because of where you come from or who you are related to."

Last Festival in Japan

There are countless local festivals in Japan because almost every shrine celebrates one of its own. We really enjoyed going to these festivals. We'll miss everything about them... yukatas, lanterns, bananas on sticks, tacoyaki stands, carnival games, fireworks, but most importantly spending time with good friends and being fully immersed in the Japanese culture. Ok, let me rephrase that, we'll miss almost everything about the Japanese festivals - we will NOT miss the crowds, intense summer heat, or mosquitoes. I swear I'm allergic to the mosquitoes in Japan - I swell up and get big welts!

 

Our last festival, and Elodie's first kiss. She'll surely miss her Shaun-Shaun.

Surprise baby shower

I was having a hard time dealing with the fact that I wasn't going to give birth in Japan. That probably sounds odd to people in the U.S. reading this, but remember that I had Elodie here and had a wonderful experience. It's what I know, it's what I'm used to, and I love my doctor. So I wasn't thrilled about being 10 weeks away from my due date, traveling across the world, and having to find a new doctor in a new city.

My friends surprised me with a baby shower the week before we were leaving for the states. It was so nice to be able to relax, not think about the stresses of moving, and just hang out with my girlfriends and have a good time. I am so lucky to have met some pretty amazing women here. My experience in Japan wouldn't have been the same without them.

Selling our stuff...

Who would have thought selling items would be so difficult? I'm pretty sure I've told you in previous posts that people in Japan tend to not like used items. This obviously makes selling your stuff in Japan extremely difficult! So we were pretty limited to the small expat and foreigner community. Dealing with such a small community of people left us not having much room to negotiate on the price, or the timing of getting rid of our stuff. Joe complained about selling our couch too early, but at least we didn't have to pay someone to come and take it at the last minute.

You can't exactly set your junk out on the curb here - you literally have to pay someone to come and pick up your garbage. This generally costs more than what the item is even worth. Plus, who wants to pay to get rid of garbage? We were left with a lot of random odds and ends, so we were scrounging at the last minute trying to demolish everything and anything we could to fit inside regular tiny Japanese garbage bags. If there's ever a next time, I think we'll just ship everything. ;)

Tokoname

Tokoname is a small city south of Nagoya known for its pottery. It's actually one of the six historic pottery towns in Japan. Tokoname has a long history and tradition of pottery making, dating back 900 years!

There is a "pottery path" filled with traditional houses, workshops, galleries, and buildings with unique character and charm. The path has remained unchanged, keeping its pottery-town atmosphere unique to Tokoname. Visitors and locals come here to shop, and enjoy the sites and history of this small, charming town. 

I have been to some of the shops in Tokoname several of times; but I have never walked the historic pottery path. Knowing our time in Nagoya was coming to an end, this was a must-do on my list! Thankfully Yumi went with me, showed me around, and enjoyed shopping for pottery together.

Those of you who know me well know that I collect pitchers. This was the PERFECT addition to my collection. It has a unique design and is loaded with beautiful blue and turquoise colors; but most importantly, it was handmade by a local artist in Japan - and it will always remind me of our incredible journey living abroad.